Technology is changing at a rapid pace. Changing alongside technology is the way people communicate and this directly affects the pick-up game. In this current age of mobile phones and instant text messaging, women are getting less comfortable receiving calls from men they meet the night before. Texting is the new form of follow-up communication, so it is absolutely vital that the PUA knows how to be smooth through text as well as in person.
Just like there are certain “rules” to follow when talking to a chick in person, there are also rules when texting her. Have you ever asked yourself, “When should I text her?” or “How should I respond?” Magnetic Messaging by Bobby Rio answers these questions and covers the whole issue of texting a girl to get her to respond with enthusiasm, with the keyword here being enthusiasm. As ridiculous as this sounds, there is a HUGE difference between a girl who responds with “k” or “kk ”, the difference being she was willing to put in that extra second of effort to let you know that she’s happy.
“Magnetic Messaging” breaks down the texting game into three phases: (1) Emotional Texts, (2) Bonding Texts, and (3) Visualization Texts. The purpose of the first step is to elicit an appropriate emotional response (not to be confused with texting WITH emotion!), the second is to make her feel comfortable with texting you back and forth for periods at a time so as to build rapport, and the third gets her to start visualizing how much better she would feel with you around her physically.
You should not get the wrong impression here, the point of this system is to turn you into a texting god so she is practically begging you to take her out on a date, but don’t expect a bang immediately (unless she is super easy, or you’re just that god damn smooth. If you WERE that smooth, you probably wouldn’t be reading this review ). Also realize, getting a first date is probably the toughest part of pick-up, but learning how to text correctly makes it considerably easier.
You could be thinking, “Oh I don’t need this shit, how hard can texting be? I’ve been cyber sexing bitches since the AOL days!” Believe me, it’s a lot harder than you think. For example, how can you convey meaning through text, but not come off as needy? Also, are you really sure you catch her drift, or are you just guessing? Do all girls text with a repeating letter at the end of each sentence or is she into you? Like I said, sounds ridiculous, but all questions you will ask yourself if you are inexperienced in texting game.
Magnetic Messaging really captures all the principles one needs to know for texting a girl. It touches upon all the issues above with thorough examples so as to get your creative juices flowing for when it’s your turn. It really is a great guide for gaming effectively in today’s mobile world, and nowadays, texting is usually your one shot at nabbing that first date, so why blow it?